What Entails Real Confidence And If You Have It!


What Entails Real Confidence And If You Have It!

Real Confidence means you win! Confidence only comes when you have substance and mettle. Get past whatever trouble comes your way. See everything in a positive light. There is a god gift in every situation God gives us. If you have a problem, look at it this way, you have two choices in every area, one is great and one is a little less great, choose the option which seems better, confidence means that you respect yourself. You are no less than anyone else when you have confidence and a confident person silently minds his own business. He does not have time to find flaws with others because he is so busy improving others and his/her own self. 

What Entails Real Confidence And If You Have It!
What Entails Real Confidence And If You Have It!

Do Not Compare Is A Real Confidence

Real Confidence means two things, not comparing you with others but getting inspiration from wherever it keeps coming. For instance, Alice did not know her strengths until she saw her best friend’s list of achievements, she got inspired to make her list of her strengths, and she was surprised at how good she was, do not compare, seek inspiration and seek motivation. Comparison is a folly. Now you might say, obviously one will compare some car to another, but we are not cars, we are humans, you can compare cars but not humans, the difference is subtle.

Self Dialogue Is A Real Confidence

Sometimes our self-dialogue and communication skills are very confusing and toughest to change but pay attention and congratulate yourself for all good things you do like making others smile when you practice kindness, you are giving back to the society, give more than you take and talk, self-negation is very complicated, but doing good deeds means that you improve self talk. This means going from negative to positive. Read a lot of positive quotations coming from a well-meaning source and you will be happy to know that others are sailing in the same boat, and always have an invincible summer inside of you. 

Talk To The Mirror

Talking to the mirror before an interview means that you know exactly how you are coming across, practice with the dress, the dress rehearsal, and hone your communication skills until you become a diamond. Shine from within and without and do not stop till the thought comes that you will win. Tell yourself every day that, ‘ I always win.’ This will do wonders for your self-esteem and confidence. Make the mirror a friend. 

Hygiene

Cleanliness is next to godliness. If you have not brushed, if you have not taken a bath, if your daily routine is not inclined towards cleanliness and hygiene then do not dream those big dreams, no one likes lack of hygiene, it comes across as ill-bred people. So clean and scrub until you smile at your existence. 

What Entails Real Confidence And If You Have It!
What Entails Real Confidence And If You Have It!

Smile 

We respect people who we see smiling because everyone is frankly quite busy with their problems and like a smiling self-assured face. But also keep a few friends who can help you in times of trouble. Smile often with those shining bright teeth and spread some happiness around. 

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